What does it mean to be human?
We try so hard to connect with each other.
Even when we are angry, or confused, or scared.
We offer the gift of our vulnerability, we open ourselves up to pain.
What else can we do?
I watch my husband putting on his black socks.
His familiar movements and gestures are beautiful to me.
I look at Bonnard’s paintings of women putting on black stockings.
The paintings are sensual and tender, but they make me feel sad.
Life is short.
Ordinary moments become precious as they pass away.
And we are so hungry for connection.
We try so hard. What else can we do?